If you're loving an emotionally unavailable man who remains at a distance, isn't emotionally open, and who has admitted distrust in women, it's best you extend an unspoken invitation for him to get to know you and come close, rather than trying to "pull" love out of him like fingers from a Chinese finger cuff.Just like a Chinese finger cuff, his love will resist your advances.
So apparently I’m not meeting most of the criteria for being a white knight.He told me he didn’t want to lose me, nor did he want his baggage to ruin what we had. This lasted for all of about twenty-four hours when he ended it. I confronted him about it and he took no accountability for ending things the way he did.He has convinced himself that he is being honest with me. I came to realize he will find another awesome girl and do the same thing to her to fill his void of being alone Lather. Repeat I sent myself in to a six-week black hole, and I will never get those six weeks back.You know she’s an amazing girl and you know that you care about her, but you’re not sure if she’s entirely worth the extra effort you’re having to put into it all.What I’m asking you to do is this: be patient with the girl whose heart was broken before you came into her life. I know that you’re most likely having a harder time than most new couples would be having at this stage.